So, I have a HPE DL360 G9 sat around doing nothing, and I thought hey, I should turn this into a home server, before you say, I am already aware of the noise and power consumption etc... the hardware is set, what I am not sure on, and from all my research am now even more unsure, is what software setup to use..

I have seen many posts/blogs/guides about what software to use and I am no closer to making a decision, so I was hoping you guys could help, for information I want/do the following:

• Plex/Kodi/Jellyfin (arr)
  • I am currently using Stremio+Torrentio+RD as a replacement for netflix/disney+ etc which is super solid and doesnt require extensive drive space
  • I have IPTV via xtream API, have tried adding this to Stremio via apps but none seem to work, ideally I want my IPTV/Movies/TV shows all in one place/app
• Unifi Controller
  • I have a couple of UniFi APs and a switch installed in my home
• Network/traffic monitoring
• CCTV
• Password Manager - if possible?
• Add blocking
• VPN
• File Cloud
• Home assistant - I have phillips hue lights and some homekit stuff
• Dashboard/(s) - to monitor/display the services I have in place
• web proxy to use everything via my own domain

Probably a lot of requirements but curious what you guys think.. I have seen alot of people talk about Proxmox to host everything, as well as (Sonarr, Radarr, Bazarr, QBittorrent) arr stacks - i would use DebridMediaManager or something i guess..

appreciate any input